10 Things to Know Before Trying to Get Your Ex Back

Are you sure you want your ex back? As a spell worker hearing the same scenarios daily, I feel that it is partially my responsibility to try and help someone out there who is possibly considering this.

I regularly get email from women (men as well) begin me to do anything to help them get their exes back into their lives. No matter what it takes, no matter how many spells it takes, they never give up a lot of the time.

I came to the realization that all of these women had pretty much the same requests as each other. Believe it or not, most all of them want the ex to come back to them, but only to torture them. These hurt women want revenge. They have put so much time, love, tears, and effort into the relationship. A lot of the times a substantial amount of money was spent on the other party, so these women are pissed off.

It doesn't end there. After they are done torturing them, they want other spells to make the ex obsessed with them...so that they "bow down to the queen" on bended knee.

Why? Well, you could say that they are co-dependent. Yet, I honestly believe that there are several underlying issues here. We will get into that a little later.

These aren't bad women. These women are professional, classy, and sometimes even famous. Goes to show that the pain from a broken relationship does not discriminate. We are all vulnerable to the drama. It's unavoidable, and so, so uncool.

A large majority of these women had men who cheated on them. Possibly more than once. Possibly left them for another women. Possibly got another woman pregnant. These women have been either abused mentally, physically, emotionally, or all three.

What makes this an even sadder situation is that these men have made it obvious and perfectly clear to their women that they do not love them anymore, but these women are convinced that this is their soulmate because they had so many readers tell them that he was their soulmate.

Nothing is going to change the mind of a women believing that she will never and should never love another man ever again.

Before you email your reader or spell worker, there are a few very important issues that you must consider first:
  1. Spell work does not change someone's personality or cheating, narcissistic ways.
  2. Spell work will not keep a man from abusing or hitting you.
  3. If he did a bad thing or two to you before, there is a 99.9% chance that he will most certainly do it again. He will keep on repeating the abuse until you finally DO leave him permanently, while finally getting on with your life to happy for once
  4. You cannot push someone away (curse or hex them), and at the same time pull them back into your life. The intentions are two different things altogether.
  5. Why torture someone if you love him so much? Why put yourself through an unnecessary hell just to hang on to someone who is a peice of shit to you? Sometimes, getting that revenge on a person hurts you more than it hurts them.
  6. Give yourself 2 weeks without speaking or contacting him/her. This gives you some time to heal and build some self love before making any impulsive decisions that could negatively effect your life permanently. I've seen it happen. After that time has passed, things will get a little easier. The pain will still be fresh, but you'll have more of clear head to figure out if it's time to let him go and move on. You will survive, and be all the better for it.
  7. Don't hold onto the past. Allow yourself the time to heal by not rushing into another relationship too fast. It's like adding fuel to the fire, and no one ends up hurt more except for yourself.
  8. Remember, the most important person in your life is you. Would you let someone hurt your daughter or sister like this? What would you say to your daughter or sister if they were in your situation?
  9. Don't be a victim anymore.
  10.  It's not our job or your reader's job to judge you or your situation, because at the end of the day it's your life and you have to live it.
As a spiritual worker, we do everything in our power to manifest your desires to make life just a little easier. All situations are different, but these are just some issues people come to me that make me lose sleep sometimes.
When having someone perform a spell for you, please sit, and thing very hard if it is the RIGHT decision overall. In the end, no one is as important as you.

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